|Another Library Find!|
Why did I stop? No idea. On to something else? Boys do that with ease. Life gets in the way even in the elementary years. Later attempts at writing come and go. A pattern emerges: high school newspaper - give up when I cannot connect with the baseball coach I am supposed to interview. College newspaper - a guy's gotta make time for the CPA exam somehow. Trade association newsletters, this blog, that blog.
Then my boss needed a website. Earlier this year, I went to a seminar on growing your business through social media. My passion for writing jumped to the front of the line once again. Now re-committed, I stalked the library for books about being a better writer. When The Memoir Project by Marion Roach Smith told me to throw out my writing exercises (and the other library books I got) and instead start writing with intent. Now we are finally getting somewhere.
It is about memoir writing, and blogging is a form of memoir.
My biggest problem in writing has not been spelling, grammar, or sentence structure. What really bugs me is the question of my voice (page 15: "Foremost in memoir, we expect your voice. that's the slant: your take on the world"). Should I write as a self proclaimed know it all? Perhaps a hapless goober in search of easy laughs? Neither, really, but how does one "be yourself" in print? A light bulb goes off when reading page 54:
Writing something that makes them sound admirable, writers can come off sounding like the worst kind of self serving schmucks. The best example of this is a parenting column from someone who is always right. I hate those and wonder why anyone would chose to write from the point of view of knowing all the right things to do with children, when the far more interesting (as well as far more true) vantage point is that of fumbling through the day while living under the bruising scrutiny of a three year old.The light bulb shines brighter on page 60:
There are many adages about writing, though one that's particularly helpful is to write what scares you. We're all scared of being wrong. I am, every day, as a parent. And I'm glad, since I've never learned anything by being right.Finally! And after at least 20 drafts, I come up with:
This is about appreciating the here and now, illustrated by my adventures, misadventures, and lessons learned as a husband, homeschooling dad, and CPA.Now I know how to structure my blog and how to market it. I am so grateful for finding this at the library that I bought my own copy. If you are an aspiring writer, you may want to do the same.